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invujerry wrote:Glad you made it through and posted back!! Honestly dude, dont get married for the baby. It seems like a great idea, but it can be a nasty divorce. Ive seen my friends parents "stay together for the kids" and it was worse than having divorced parents. Live together for at least a year or two. I dated my wife for 5 years and we lived together for 3 years before we got married. You don't really understand a person until you live with them for a few years. By the time you get married you'll see if you are really compatible with each other and if you are, the marriage will go really easy for you both.

Please get tested though.

Exactly. I am in almost the exact situation as Jerry. May 2nd marked my 7 year anniversay and my wedding day. Honestly because we have been together for 7 years and living together for 3.5 years it really doesn't feel much different. We love each other and like each other. And liking your wife is just as important as loving them.

Wow, looks like i should get her DNA tested huh... .

Thing about that is, im going to have a VERY pissed off girlfriend if i do that. And an even more pissed off girlfriends mom.

I do trust her a TON, so im positive she would never do that to me, regardless of how unlucky i was about wearingg a condom and still getting her pregnant. For those of you who are curious, marriage wouldent be for the baby, i do actually care about and love her. Forgot who said it, but why does it matter if im 19?

Update on this situation..shes currently 5mo, its going to be a boy name so far that we've agreed on is Noah and from what the doctors tell us it seems to be preety healthy

Oh, her due date is jan 5th

WooOOooT Noah. love the name. Congrats glad to see you still around!!! keep us posted.

Better then them finding out when you accidentally leave like a baby bottle in the car or a car seat or something it's best you sit them down in a calm area...or your living room...my parents ha I would be castrated and hung from it...ouch....

good to hear dude!
congrats and good luck with everything

lol you obviously missed my comment, same thought though

well i was in the same basic situation u r..

my daughter i almost 3... i was 20 when my wife got pregnant...she was 17... so it was hard to grasp..

i told my parents, just sat them down told them, they were cool with it..and always have been, they help me anyway they can..and i am grateful for that..

i am now 24...my wife and i just had out 2 yr anv. ...

i am just glad to see u r takin responsibiity ... just be the man, and do what u gotta do.. if u do that...everythng else will fall into place somehow..

and take this t o heart.. its going to be TOUGH as shit money wise..but just remember..u will ALWAYS find a way through it..never give up!