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Well boys and girls....

I'm gonna be a single dad. I was asked for a divorce on the 19th of December. After about 3 weeks of trying to convince her to drop her new boyfriend and come home, she's made it pretty clear that it's not gonna happen. I'll be getting papers Monday morning. She's giving me full custody of Jaid, and I'm keeping most everything (house included), she's also told me I can have the tax return, so I can pay off all the debt and get a good start for Jaid and I. Some of you know the details of all this mess, some don't, but I'd rather not get into it because it just saddens and enrages me all at the same time. Just figured I'd give all of ya'll a heads up on the old TiNKster.

While the situation royally sucks, the important part is Jaid is staying with her daddy. I have started shopping around for a new ride, something with a bit more space for her and I. leaning towards a full size truck, preferrably a diesel Ram quad cab, but I've also got my eye on a pretty sweet Magnum R/T. So we'll see, a new car won't be in the cards until after the other bills are paid off and a few home improvements are made.

Sad to hear mate...but look after that little girl ....she is very special and that's whats important

Stuff like this breaks my heart. I'm so glad you'll be able to provide for your daughter though. She's a cutie!

Thanks guys, I'll be trying to post up some new pics of Jaid and I, I wanna go get some taken to replace the ones on the walls at home. Hopefully I'll be a bit more active on here again too.

Sorry to hear, Tink. At least your daughter is with you. Good luck with everything!

Mike,

my best to you and Jaid in this rough time. Shoot me a message if you ever want to talk.

Dude, I'm sorry to hear this shit man...

sorry to hear about it TNK.... i hope that u get threw everything well and fast!



by the way... i love ur daughters name.... Jaid... i like it alot!

good luck bro

Holy moly man, hope everything works out good for you. It's rare when the woman in the relationship gives up custody. Will she be paying child support or no? If you need to talk, you have my number.

I'm so sorry to hear this, man.

Wow, I'm sure this must be devastating. I can't even imagine.

At least Jaid won't be won't be thrown into the middle of a custody dispute.

Wow, thats crazy TNK

I hope the best for you and your Daughter and if you ever need anything, 2gn will always be here for you!

Wow, terrible! It's amazing what some people are capable of...but at least Jaid is with the responsible parent.

uhm.... txt me.

Wow, sorry to hear this TNK. I can't even begin to imagine your feelings right now.

Wow Mike, I feel for you. Stay strong and love that little girl. Heres hopeing that things improve for ya.

hul kogan wrote:Wow, I'm sure this must be devastating. I can't even imagine.

At least Jaid won't be won't be thrown into the middle of a custody dispute.

We're all here for you buddy.

Seriously bro that sucks big giant balls. Take care of your baby girl and show the good shit in life. Best of luck to you =)

Damn tnk this sucks. Atleast u get to keep ur baby girl. U know u have support from all of us here on 2gn. I'm glad u can move forward

Wow Tnk... Sorry to hear this has happened, but i'm happy to hear that Jaid is going to be with her dad. Keep your head up and if you ever need anything just let us know

sorry to hear that man

Best of luck with everything to come man!

Sucks to hear that dude. Atleast she isn't robbing your blind like they usually do, and more importantly you have your little girl, so just keep your head up and I'm sure all will be fine.

racer12306 wrote:Mike,

my best to you and Jaid in this rough time. Shoot me a message if you ever want to talk.

Wow dude... I'm sorry to hear this....

Sorry to hear man, 2gn is here for you.

I'm sorry to hear what happened, I wish you and your daughter the very best.

sorry to hear this i really am.things will work out for you though glad you got custody you seem to have your mind right

Sorry? not really - such things happen every day. So there's no need to cry - just look forward!
(no i do not mean that cynical. i just wanna say: don't wallow in self-pity!!!)

think positive:
you have now the chance for a brandnew start with your daughter.
and i guess it should be not complicated to find a nice girl sooner or later.

be happy that you got rid of the cheating bitch.

Sure - she is Jaids mom and that makes all the things complicated.
But in summary you should never forget that WITH her you would never know if she loves you or is cheating again and again!!!

So enjoy your new life and don't forget the most important things for seperated parents:
- no stress while jaid is also in the room
- don't use jaid as a weapon (you know what i mean - psycho-war!!!)
- don't let her use jaid as a weapon (to force you to smth.)
- never forget that you loved her once
- be everytime gentle and nice to your ex.
- but don't try to play "happy family" with your ex - that will not end good


Jaid will notice how you 3 are acting with eachother and that will rule her whole life!
Kids are really sensible for such things!!!

sorry to hear man hope it all works out but most importantly focus on your little girl

Everything happens for a reason, and this may be the best thing for Jaid. Are you getting child support? You should considering you have full custody. Keep your head held high, and be strong for yourself...and for Jaid.