Paul56 wrote:Ya Jeff
Oh, this is good.
Paul56 wrote:this is a car forum.
Correct. Have a cookie.
Paul56 wrote:But this is the off-topic forum and the thread was appropriately titled so if you don't get it then why make stupid comments?
You created a thread on the world-wide web. If you don't want anyone to reply, even if you don't agree with them, then why start a thread in the first place?
Paul56 wrote:Stop being such an off-topic pussie eh.

Do you really want me to break apart your thread-starter post?
The 'supposedly' 54yo man frustrated about a girl who doesn't want anything more than friendship. You failed to see that she didn't want you for anything more than that. You focused
so hard on the idea that she would eventually come around, that in the end when it didn't happen, you got hurt. She told you she was 'on hiatus' because she obviously sees you are not emotionally stable enough to handle a simple 'no'. Yes, she probably dragged you through the shit, but how much of that is your delusional lust for her thinking that she is just stringing you along?
From what you've described, she continued on with life perfectly unaware of your desire for her. Or, if she was aware, she obviously didn't want to
ever think of you more than the close friend.
From the beginning, when she showed
no interest, you should have emotionally backed off. But instead you kept holding out, continuing your delusional thought-process and setting
yourself up for defeat; she didn't do shit.
You did it to yourself.
So, hurt by your own imagination, you needed to vent. Where could you possibly go? Talk to your family? Nah, nevermind, you're 54 - they're all dead. Your other friends?
(the best answer) Or 2gn.org? Yeah, let's go create a worthless thread that only shows you are tied up in an emotionally-unstable imaginary relationship.
If you didn't expect anyone to call you a 'pussy' (which wasn't me in the first place lol) or rub dirt in your face about how you should man-up, then you need to seriously re-evaluate your life.
Believe me, I'm all for helping people. Whether it be problems with their cars, or problems with their lives, but there is a time and a place for everything. You need to talk to people face to face. Not rant on a car forum. It gets you nowhere; believe me.
Think of this thread as a crutch to put you back on your feet. You don't need people telling you 'everything will turn around'. You need a kick in the nuts (metaphorically). And as weird as that sounds, it's the best way to become as emotional detached from something that shouldn't have hurt you in the first place.
So are we making fun of you? or psychologically helping you?

Wrap that around your brain a couple times.
Paul56 wrote:Yeah, I'm laughing about the whole thing... and moving on.
Good. Enjoy it.
And if you actually read all that. Good job.

I hope you understand the meaning of it, Paul.