FORGETTING A WOMAN/ MOVING ON

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FORGETTING A WOMAN/ MOVING ON

Post by caustic neon » Tue Jan 07, 2014 12:48 pm

OK GUYS, NEED SOME ADVICE HERE, I AM TRYING TO GET OVER AN EX, WE DATED OFF AND ON FOR 3 YEARS, I KNOW ITS OVER AND IM OK WITH IT, I WASN'T MY SELF WITH HER, SHE HAS SOME MAJOR SELF ESTEEM ISSUES THAT SHE PROJECTED ON TO ME. SHE WOULD THINK THAT I LOOKED AT EVERY WOMAN AND WANT TO BONE HER OR FIND HER MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN SHE WAS. I WILL ADMIT I DID LOOK ON OCCASION BUT NOT TO THE EXTENT SHE THOUGHT OR WOULD ACCUSE ME OF. MY QUESTION IS HOW DO I FORGET ABOUT HER, I LOVE THIS CHICK (CRAZY I KNOW) I CANT GET HER OUT OF MY HEAD, I KNOW SHE IS NOTHING BUT BAD FOR ME BUT I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER, HELL I KEEP CHECKING HE INSTAGRAM AND SHIT. WHY I KNOW IM NOT THIS WEAK

(SORRY ABOUT THE CAPPS IM AT WORK)
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Post by A@ron » Tue Jan 07, 2014 12:54 pm

Sounds like a bit of a toxic relationship. Personally I'd get more involved in my hobbies that make me happy and live well.

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Post by FAC3L3SS » Tue Jan 07, 2014 5:32 pm

Can you not release caps lock for even 2 minutes to type a post or respond?
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Post by gtxtreme19 » Tue Jan 07, 2014 6:24 pm

The easiest way to get over a chick is to get on top of another one!
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Post by Midnight_Rider » Tue Jan 07, 2014 7:17 pm

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Post by INVUJerry » Tue Jan 07, 2014 7:56 pm

gtxtreme19 wrote:The easiest way to get over a chick is to get on top of another one!
Midnight_Rider wrote:Time heals all wounds. I know that it's a cliché but it's true.
Do yourself a favor, John. Block her on every social network you can. If you can't stop checking, get rid of the apps on your phone and don't go on the websites, deactivate your accounts for a little bit. Get something to get into to clear your head, play video games, hang out with your kids more (if you can), just do anything to stay away from her. It'll be hard, but worth it in the end.

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Post by MyNeonSaysHi » Tue Jan 07, 2014 11:57 pm

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Hahaha had to.

What INVU said, but minus the alcohol part. That might cause you to do some really stupid sh!t. :lol:

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Post by caustic neon » Wed Jan 08, 2014 8:07 am

THE ONLY WAY TO GET THE CAPS OFF IS TO EXIT MY DISPATCH PROGRAM, AND I CANT DO THAT WHEN IM WORKING. LOL


I KNOW ITS NOT A GOOD THING FOR ME TO STAY IN THIS AND I AM FIGHTING TO NOT LOOK, I STILL CARE AND THATS THE PROBLEM, LAST TIME WE SPLIT SHE WENT WITH A DUDE WHO JUST USED HER FOR SEX AND I SEE THAT HAPPENING AGAIN, I KNOW ITS NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO PROTECT HER OR TO EVEN CARE BUT I DO. IT FLIPPING SUCKS
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Post by Midnight_Rider » Wed Jan 08, 2014 11:10 am

She obviously doesn't care for you as much as you do for her- at least that's what it sounds like to me. It won't mean that you don't care for her if you start thinking of yourself first.
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Post by caustic neon » Wed Jan 08, 2014 1:31 pm

YEA, IT SUCKS BEING THE NICE GUY!!!
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Post by mjrpaine » Wed Jan 08, 2014 3:21 pm

Well ... I will give my .02 ...

April of 2012 the job I was working at told me they were sending me to Germany for 3 weeks ... the girl I had been with for almost 5 years ended up breaking up with me and moved in with some other guy within a week. Just because she couldn't deal with me being gone for 3 weeks in another country. It sucked and it hurt.

I ended up calling a friend of mine ... had a long talk with him .. then I ended up going to church. Just my point of view ... but it really helped me get over her and her issues ... and my pain. December of 2012 I ended up connecting with my first love from grade school. We dated from 4th to 8th grade. We split up because we ended up going to different high schools. Now we are getting married in February and expecting a baby in June. We go to church almost every week ... and alls I can say is ... I thank God for putting me back in a happy path.

You never know .. he might do the same for you ...
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Post by caustic neon » Wed Jan 08, 2014 3:52 pm

I LIKE THAT IDEA, MUCH BETTER THAN LOOKING IN THE BOTTOM OF A BOTTLE, THAT AND VIDEO GAMES
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Post by rOniN » Fri Jan 10, 2014 12:42 am

I suggest skydiving....the rush alone will make you forget all about her.

Get as far away as possible, focus on other things or find another girl. There are plenty of ways to get over this girl.

I had an issue like this with my high school girlfriend. I moped around for a long time and finally realized that there are other things in life and focused on those.

As Gramps said, time heals everything and it will take some time. You just have that internal urge to want something that you can't necessarily have or shouldn't have. We all have it. Just focus that urge onto something else that is out of reach and see where it leads you.
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Re: FORGETTING A WOMAN/ MOVING ON

Post by ThatKevin » Fri Jan 10, 2014 6:31 pm

caustic neon wrote:MY QUESTION IS HOW DO I FORGET ABOUT HER]
#1. Don't post about her on a car forum.

#2. Disconnect from any social media she has

#3. Move onto someone/something else
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Post by ducktapetg » Sat Jan 11, 2014 9:47 am

Everything happens for a reason and this proves it.
mjrpaine wrote:Well ... I will give my .02 ...

April of 2012 the job I was working at told me they were sending me to Germany for 3 weeks ... the girl I had been with for almost 5 years ended up breaking up with me and moved in with some other guy within a week. Just because she couldn't deal with me being gone for 3 weeks in another country. It sucked and it hurt.

I ended up calling a friend of mine ... had a long talk with him .. then I ended up going to church. Just my point of view ... but it really helped me get over her and her issues ... and my pain. December of 2012 I ended up connecting with my first love from grade school. We dated from 4th to 8th grade. We split up because we ended up going to different high schools. Now we are getting married in February and expecting a baby in June. We go to church almost every week ... and alls I can say is ... I thank God for putting me back in a happy path.

You never know .. he might do the same for you ...
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Post by esteinmaier » Sat Jan 11, 2014 11:57 am

Strange. Lots and lots of it.
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Post by rOniN » Sun Jan 12, 2014 7:05 am

esteinmaier wrote:Strange. Lots and lots of it.

So true!
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Post by Haganracing » Tue Jan 14, 2014 2:55 am

KEEP YOUR MIND OCCUPIED WITH OTHER THINGS AND DON'T WORRY/THINK ABOUT HER.

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Post by caustic neon » Tue Jan 14, 2014 8:45 am

UPDATE, SHE WANTED TO MEET UP FOR DINNER ON FRIDAY TO TALK AND TO GIVE ME SOME THINGS SHE ORDERED FOR ME, WELL WE MET UP AND SHE BASICALLY ASKED ME SINCE I HAVE DONE SOME WORK TO HER CAR IF I WOULD BE AROUND TO HELP HER IF SHE HAD ANY ISSUES ( I INSTALLED AND INTAKE AND NEW BRAKES) WELL LIKE AN IDIOT I SAID YES, SO WE LEAVE AND 5 MIN LATER SHE CALLS ME AND ASKES ME IF I WANT TO HELP HER LOOK AT GLASSES. AGAIN IM AN IDIOT AND SAY YES. SO WE GO LOOK AND TALK LIKE EVERYTHING IS NORMAL, I GO HOME AND SHE STARTS TEXTING ME LIKE NORMAL, I MENTION PANCAKES AND SHE TELLS ME THAT SHE IS DRAGGING ME OUT TO OUR FAVORITE PLACE FOR PANCAKES IN THE MORNING. AGAIN LIKE AN IDIOT I GO. THIS WAS SAT AND WE HAVE TEXT EVERY DAY OFF AND ON ALL DAY SINCE THEN WITH HER BEING THE ONE WHO INITIATES THE TEXTING.

WHAT THE HELL I THOUGHT I WAS OVER THIS, I KNOW I STILL LOVE HER BUT I DONT GET THIS.
I KNOW I MADE SOME MISTAKES EARLY IN AND LIED THEN LIED TO COVER MY LIES SO THERE IS A LOT OF MISTRUST ON HER END AND ITS MY FAULT, THATS WHY SHE ENDED IT, SO DOES SHE REALLY MISS ME, IS THIS JUST A GAME, DO I KEEP TEXTING AND SEE WHERE IT GOES OR DO I CUT HER OFF AND WALK AWAY, THE ONE THING I DONT WANT TO DO. AHHH IM LOST DAMN IT. MY MARRIAGE ENDING DIDNT MESS ME UP THIS BAD. :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
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Post by Midnight_Rider » Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:21 am

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Post by caustic neon » Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:33 am

LMAO THANKS GRAMPS
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Post by Fuzzyneon » Tue Jan 14, 2014 3:43 pm

Make a clean break fuck that shit wash your hands of it and move on be single for a while make yourself happy.
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Post by ThatKevin » Tue Jan 14, 2014 8:24 pm

If it was me, I'd drop that shit faster than if I actually had shit in my hands. :roll:


Everyone is going to tell you to leave, but obviously you're going to stay, and soon enough you'll be back with another thread on how you've lost her once again and don't know what to do.

Stop this or actually do something about it.
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Post by gtxtreme19 » Wed Jan 15, 2014 10:13 am

Bang her mom, that will make the mistrust issue real bad, and you won't have to cover your ass, and she'll dump you... problem solved
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Post by caustic neon » Wed Jan 15, 2014 11:00 am

NAA HER MOM IS NASTY! LOL
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Post by theColonel » Wed Jan 15, 2014 11:55 am

mjrpaine wrote:Well ... I will give my .02 ...

April of 2012 the job I was working at told me they were sending me to Germany for 3 weeks ... the girl I had been with for almost 5 years ended up breaking up with me and moved in with some other guy within a week. Just because she couldn't deal with me being gone for 3 weeks in another country. It sucked and it hurt.

I ended up calling a friend of mine ... had a long talk with him .. then I ended up going to church. Just my point of view ... but it really helped me get over her and her issues ... and my pain. December of 2012 I ended up connecting with my first love from grade school. We dated from 4th to 8th grade. We split up because we ended up going to different high schools. Now we are getting married in February and expecting a baby in June. We go to church almost every week ... and alls I can say is ... I thank God for putting me back in a happy path.

You never know .. he might do the same for you ...
I'm in the procees of divorcing my wife ... this is the only comment that makes sense ...
if the relationship is bad, you need to end it ... Why go through this again & again ?
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Post by Midnight_Rider » Wed Jan 15, 2014 12:17 pm

gtxtreme19 wrote:Bang her mom, that will make the mistrust issue real bad, and you won't have to cover your ***, and she'll dump you... problem solved
Why does this remind me of "The Graduate"? :shock:
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Post by occasional demons » Wed Jan 15, 2014 12:23 pm

caustic neon wrote:NAA HER MOM IS NASTY! LOL

All the more reason to Run Like Hell!
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Post by Midnight_Rider » Wed Jan 15, 2014 1:02 pm

Midnight_Rider wrote::runaway:
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