FORGETTING A WOMAN/ MOVING ON
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FORGETTING A WOMAN/ MOVING ON
OK GUYS, NEED SOME ADVICE HERE, I AM TRYING TO GET OVER AN EX, WE DATED OFF AND ON FOR 3 YEARS, I KNOW ITS OVER AND IM OK WITH IT, I WASN'T MY SELF WITH HER, SHE HAS SOME MAJOR SELF ESTEEM ISSUES THAT SHE PROJECTED ON TO ME. SHE WOULD THINK THAT I LOOKED AT EVERY WOMAN AND WANT TO BONE HER OR FIND HER MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN SHE WAS. I WILL ADMIT I DID LOOK ON OCCASION BUT NOT TO THE EXTENT SHE THOUGHT OR WOULD ACCUSE ME OF. MY QUESTION IS HOW DO I FORGET ABOUT HER, I LOVE THIS CHICK (CRAZY I KNOW) I CANT GET HER OUT OF MY HEAD, I KNOW SHE IS NOTHING BUT BAD FOR ME BUT I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HER, HELL I KEEP CHECKING HE INSTAGRAM AND SHIT. WHY I KNOW IM NOT THIS WEAK
(SORRY ABOUT THE CAPPS IM AT WORK)
(SORRY ABOUT THE CAPPS IM AT WORK)
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gtxtreme19 wrote:The easiest way to get over a chick is to get on top of another one!
Do yourself a favor, John. Block her on every social network you can. If you can't stop checking, get rid of the apps on your phone and don't go on the websites, deactivate your accounts for a little bit. Get something to get into to clear your head, play video games, hang out with your kids more (if you can), just do anything to stay away from her. It'll be hard, but worth it in the end.Midnight_Rider wrote:Time heals all wounds. I know that it's a cliché but it's true.
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THE ONLY WAY TO GET THE CAPS OFF IS TO EXIT MY DISPATCH PROGRAM, AND I CANT DO THAT WHEN IM WORKING. LOL
I KNOW ITS NOT A GOOD THING FOR ME TO STAY IN THIS AND I AM FIGHTING TO NOT LOOK, I STILL CARE AND THATS THE PROBLEM, LAST TIME WE SPLIT SHE WENT WITH A DUDE WHO JUST USED HER FOR SEX AND I SEE THAT HAPPENING AGAIN, I KNOW ITS NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO PROTECT HER OR TO EVEN CARE BUT I DO. IT FLIPPING SUCKS
I KNOW ITS NOT A GOOD THING FOR ME TO STAY IN THIS AND I AM FIGHTING TO NOT LOOK, I STILL CARE AND THATS THE PROBLEM, LAST TIME WE SPLIT SHE WENT WITH A DUDE WHO JUST USED HER FOR SEX AND I SEE THAT HAPPENING AGAIN, I KNOW ITS NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO PROTECT HER OR TO EVEN CARE BUT I DO. IT FLIPPING SUCKS
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Well ... I will give my .02 ...
April of 2012 the job I was working at told me they were sending me to Germany for 3 weeks ... the girl I had been with for almost 5 years ended up breaking up with me and moved in with some other guy within a week. Just because she couldn't deal with me being gone for 3 weeks in another country. It sucked and it hurt.
I ended up calling a friend of mine ... had a long talk with him .. then I ended up going to church. Just my point of view ... but it really helped me get over her and her issues ... and my pain. December of 2012 I ended up connecting with my first love from grade school. We dated from 4th to 8th grade. We split up because we ended up going to different high schools. Now we are getting married in February and expecting a baby in June. We go to church almost every week ... and alls I can say is ... I thank God for putting me back in a happy path.
You never know .. he might do the same for you ...
April of 2012 the job I was working at told me they were sending me to Germany for 3 weeks ... the girl I had been with for almost 5 years ended up breaking up with me and moved in with some other guy within a week. Just because she couldn't deal with me being gone for 3 weeks in another country. It sucked and it hurt.
I ended up calling a friend of mine ... had a long talk with him .. then I ended up going to church. Just my point of view ... but it really helped me get over her and her issues ... and my pain. December of 2012 I ended up connecting with my first love from grade school. We dated from 4th to 8th grade. We split up because we ended up going to different high schools. Now we are getting married in February and expecting a baby in June. We go to church almost every week ... and alls I can say is ... I thank God for putting me back in a happy path.
You never know .. he might do the same for you ...
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I LIKE THAT IDEA, MUCH BETTER THAN LOOKING IN THE BOTTOM OF A BOTTLE, THAT AND VIDEO GAMES
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2003 Dodge SXT (MAGGIE) = Dead X 3
1997 Dodge Highline DOHC coupe = Sold
1996 Dodge sedan (Baby) SOHC = Sold
1996 Dodge espresso coupe SOHC (Stella) = Dead
1998 Plymouth ACR------- more to come
I suggest skydiving....the rush alone will make you forget all about her.
Get as far away as possible, focus on other things or find another girl. There are plenty of ways to get over this girl.
I had an issue like this with my high school girlfriend. I moped around for a long time and finally realized that there are other things in life and focused on those.
As Gramps said, time heals everything and it will take some time. You just have that internal urge to want something that you can't necessarily have or shouldn't have. We all have it. Just focus that urge onto something else that is out of reach and see where it leads you.
Get as far away as possible, focus on other things or find another girl. There are plenty of ways to get over this girl.
I had an issue like this with my high school girlfriend. I moped around for a long time and finally realized that there are other things in life and focused on those.
As Gramps said, time heals everything and it will take some time. You just have that internal urge to want something that you can't necessarily have or shouldn't have. We all have it. Just focus that urge onto something else that is out of reach and see where it leads you.
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Re: FORGETTING A WOMAN/ MOVING ON
#1. Don't post about her on a car forum.caustic neon wrote:MY QUESTION IS HOW DO I FORGET ABOUT HER]
#2. Disconnect from any social media she has
#3. Move onto someone/something else
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Everything happens for a reason and this proves it.
For me, spending time with buddies always helps alleviate my stress and clear my mind. If they are true buddies, they will have your back and support you through it too.mjrpaine wrote:Well ... I will give my .02 ...
April of 2012 the job I was working at told me they were sending me to Germany for 3 weeks ... the girl I had been with for almost 5 years ended up breaking up with me and moved in with some other guy within a week. Just because she couldn't deal with me being gone for 3 weeks in another country. It sucked and it hurt.
I ended up calling a friend of mine ... had a long talk with him .. then I ended up going to church. Just my point of view ... but it really helped me get over her and her issues ... and my pain. December of 2012 I ended up connecting with my first love from grade school. We dated from 4th to 8th grade. We split up because we ended up going to different high schools. Now we are getting married in February and expecting a baby in June. We go to church almost every week ... and alls I can say is ... I thank God for putting me back in a happy path.
You never know .. he might do the same for you ...
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KEEP YOUR MIND OCCUPIED WITH OTHER THINGS AND DON'T WORRY/THINK ABOUT HER.
BUY CAR PARTS AND BE HAPPY!!
BUY CAR PARTS AND BE HAPPY!!
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Danteneon wrote:My advice is to fight those urges and enjoy the fact that you have both X and Y chromosomes. And an SRT. And your hand. You don't need a girl.
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UPDATE, SHE WANTED TO MEET UP FOR DINNER ON FRIDAY TO TALK AND TO GIVE ME SOME THINGS SHE ORDERED FOR ME, WELL WE MET UP AND SHE BASICALLY ASKED ME SINCE I HAVE DONE SOME WORK TO HER CAR IF I WOULD BE AROUND TO HELP HER IF SHE HAD ANY ISSUES ( I INSTALLED AND INTAKE AND NEW BRAKES) WELL LIKE AN IDIOT I SAID YES, SO WE LEAVE AND 5 MIN LATER SHE CALLS ME AND ASKES ME IF I WANT TO HELP HER LOOK AT GLASSES. AGAIN IM AN IDIOT AND SAY YES. SO WE GO LOOK AND TALK LIKE EVERYTHING IS NORMAL, I GO HOME AND SHE STARTS TEXTING ME LIKE NORMAL, I MENTION PANCAKES AND SHE TELLS ME THAT SHE IS DRAGGING ME OUT TO OUR FAVORITE PLACE FOR PANCAKES IN THE MORNING. AGAIN LIKE AN IDIOT I GO. THIS WAS SAT AND WE HAVE TEXT EVERY DAY OFF AND ON ALL DAY SINCE THEN WITH HER BEING THE ONE WHO INITIATES THE TEXTING.
WHAT THE HELL I THOUGHT I WAS OVER THIS, I KNOW I STILL LOVE HER BUT I DONT GET THIS.
I KNOW I MADE SOME MISTAKES EARLY IN AND LIED THEN LIED TO COVER MY LIES SO THERE IS A LOT OF MISTRUST ON HER END AND ITS MY FAULT, THATS WHY SHE ENDED IT, SO DOES SHE REALLY MISS ME, IS THIS JUST A GAME, DO I KEEP TEXTING AND SEE WHERE IT GOES OR DO I CUT HER OFF AND WALK AWAY, THE ONE THING I DONT WANT TO DO. AHHH IM LOST DAMN IT. MY MARRIAGE ENDING DIDNT MESS ME UP THIS BAD.
WHAT THE HELL I THOUGHT I WAS OVER THIS, I KNOW I STILL LOVE HER BUT I DONT GET THIS.
I KNOW I MADE SOME MISTAKES EARLY IN AND LIED THEN LIED TO COVER MY LIES SO THERE IS A LOT OF MISTRUST ON HER END AND ITS MY FAULT, THATS WHY SHE ENDED IT, SO DOES SHE REALLY MISS ME, IS THIS JUST A GAME, DO I KEEP TEXTING AND SEE WHERE IT GOES OR DO I CUT HER OFF AND WALK AWAY, THE ONE THING I DONT WANT TO DO. AHHH IM LOST DAMN IT. MY MARRIAGE ENDING DIDNT MESS ME UP THIS BAD.
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If it was me, I'd drop that shit faster than if I actually had shit in my hands.
Everyone is going to tell you to leave, but obviously you're going to stay, and soon enough you'll be back with another thread on how you've lost her once again and don't know what to do.
Stop this or actually do something about it.
Everyone is going to tell you to leave, but obviously you're going to stay, and soon enough you'll be back with another thread on how you've lost her once again and don't know what to do.
Stop this or actually do something about it.
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I'm in the procees of divorcing my wife ... this is the only comment that makes sense ...mjrpaine wrote:Well ... I will give my .02 ...
April of 2012 the job I was working at told me they were sending me to Germany for 3 weeks ... the girl I had been with for almost 5 years ended up breaking up with me and moved in with some other guy within a week. Just because she couldn't deal with me being gone for 3 weeks in another country. It sucked and it hurt.
I ended up calling a friend of mine ... had a long talk with him .. then I ended up going to church. Just my point of view ... but it really helped me get over her and her issues ... and my pain. December of 2012 I ended up connecting with my first love from grade school. We dated from 4th to 8th grade. We split up because we ended up going to different high schools. Now we are getting married in February and expecting a baby in June. We go to church almost every week ... and alls I can say is ... I thank God for putting me back in a happy path.
You never know .. he might do the same for you ...
if the relationship is bad, you need to end it ... Why go through this again & again ?
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caustic neon wrote:NAA HER MOM IS NASTY! LOL
All the more reason to Run Like Hell!
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