Pretty screwed up problem with a girl

j0n · Post by **j0n** » Sun Jul 29, 2007 11:04 pm

OK so there's this girl that I'm sort of talking to and she told me off the bat that at one time she participated in making an...errr...adult film. We've done our thing here and there and we're good friends and stuff, but I wouldn't call her my girlfriend per say.

Fast forward to today when an acquaintance of mine tells me he found a porno with this girl in it and he's hanging it over my head...any thoughts on how i should handle it?

sullygully · Post by **sullygully** » Sun Jul 29, 2007 11:15 pm

Tell him you don't want to see his mom porking.......................

................again

OB · Post by OB » Mon Jul 30, 2007 2:48 am

Man thats a freakin strange situation. Ive always wondered what porn stars did when it came to having relationships. I dont think anyone will have any experience in the matter, so you might have to wing it and let us know how it turns out!

Seriously though, IMO that sounds like more trouble/wierdness than its probably worth. If the girl is super cool then it might be a tough decision to make.

Sorry but I have to

at this one. Got any pics!?

INVUJerry · Post by **INVUJerry** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 6:14 am

Go to your buddy's house, tell him to put the video in, punch him in the neck, take video, kick in ribs on the way out.

J/K If she's a cool chick, why does it matter if she makes porn? I mean come on, you're dating a porn star!!

KrackstaR · Post by **KrackstaR** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 9:15 am

ok did she make a porn or did she make a movie with her her ex boyfriend, cause if she made a porn then who cares thats her profession, but if she made a movie with a guy she loved and trusted and now some jerk got a hold of it, tell him to piss off and stop spanking his wanker off to it.

ChrisRT · Post by **ChrisRT** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 9:28 am

I'd watch it, just for the hell of it. Then I'd kick hte other dude in hte face.

jT · Post by jT » Mon Jul 30, 2007 10:39 am

id make a torrent of it and upload it for the world to see.. starting with me

j0n · Post by **j0n** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 10:43 am

it was a porno that he found on some porn site...he's trying to basically blackmail me with it so he doesn't show my friends

She is a really cool chick and i care about her so i really don't want it to get out. I have no problem with the fact that she did it since she came right out and told me before we even got together.

and for the leghumpers here's a taste:

EDIT: showing my friends would be a bad idea since most of them work for her mom

Mr Josh Zombie · Post by **Mr Josh Zombie** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 10:47 am

Yeap. gotta find that porno.

Eh, you're SOL man. This is why I would never fool around with someone that was in a porn. It'll come back to bite them (and you) in the ass.

KrackstaR · Post by **KrackstaR** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:15 am

j0n wrote:it was a porno that he found on some porn site...he's trying to basically blackmail me with it so he doesn't show my friends

She is a really cool chick and i care about her so i really don't want it to get out. I have no problem with the fact that she did it since she came right out and told me before we even got together.

and for the leghumpers here's a taste:

EDIT: showing my friends would be a bad idea since most of them work for her mom

deny it (lie) just convince everyone that its not her and its some other look alike chick unless she is in the movie, holding her drivers license , and SS card, wearing her high school tee shirt.

02goldse · Post by **02goldse** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:22 am

so uh where can i find that...

2k1MotorSport · Post by **2k1MotorSport** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:58 am

put it this way.... she made the porno so she obviously doesn't care that people see her doing this.

Ask her opinion on what you should do. Just tell her that your friend found her porno and ask her what she thinks about it and how she feels about it. Then take action from there.
Is it a tape or did he find it online? If it's a tape just take it from him and either hide it or burn it. If he found it online that would be a bigger prob b/c then he could just download it again.

j0n · Post by **j0n** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 1:33 pm

Its online on some website. That's a good point that if she did it she probably dosent care ill have to talk to here about it. Though she did it over 2 years ago

ChrisRT · Post by **ChrisRT** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 1:37 pm

post the link? LOL

heyitsstock · Post by **heyitsstock** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 1:47 pm

i would exploit the shit outta it with my friends...... b ut hey im an asshole

i wouldnt care maybe for a little bit..... but im good for making jokes about anything... im pretty relaxed most of the time

i say just ride it out

EVOneon2K · Post by **EVOneon2K** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 1:52 pm

i'd beat the hell out of the friend. now for the whole video thing was it amatuer cus if not i don't think i could deal with that unless your well hung if you get wat im saying.

jT · Post by jT » Mon Jul 30, 2007 2:49 pm

yeah just post the file name and site where it came from so we can all get a taste for the girl.

J-Villa · Post by **J-Villa** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 2:57 pm

i wanna do porn professionally

lol

KrackstaR · Post by **KrackstaR** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 3:09 pm

^^^lol you can there is plenty of positions avilable.

Now you never said that you wanted to do porn professionally with women or non fat women....

SlvrACR · Post by **SlvrACR** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 3:49 pm

Hey atleast she told you, I mean you could have found out first from your friend.

Just tell your friend when he is off jerkin to the video your hittin the real thing

dblsg · Post by **dblsg** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:05 pm

i wouldn't let it bother me, but thats just me. in a weird twisted sorta way... its kinda cool

and +2 and posting the link

OB · Post by OB » Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:19 pm

So how th hell did the friend even find out anyways? Was he someone you trusted enough to tell and now he's basically turned on you? If he's just joking and playing around about spreading it, then thats one thing, but if he's actually serious, id beat him down for sure. Thats a shitty thing for a "friend" to do.

sullygully · Post by **sullygully** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:38 pm

KrackstaR wrote:^^^lol you can there is plenty of positions avilable.

Now you never said that you wanted to do porn professionally with women or non fat women....

or little boys

j0n · Post by **j0n** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:46 pm

heyitsstock: That would be my course of action for 90% of the girls ive been with...this girl is one of a few that i actually care about. we'd get along great lol

evoneon2k: i highly doubt seeing it will make me jealous if you catch my drift

slvracr: yea i thought it was pretty cool that she was straight up about it before we even got that close...probably brought us closer together. I think i'll use your quote word for word lol

dblsg: it was kinda cool knowing that i was with a girl that had been paid for her body, but now that my friends might see her its kind of...ehhhh ya know?

ob: the guy that found it is more of a casual acquaintance than a friend and apparantly he found it while browsing porno sites

and to everyone that wants to watch it...NO lol

My planned course of action at this point is to get the kid to send me the link so i can "verify it's legit" and then contact the webmaster and see if he'll pull the video for me.

Mr Josh Zombie · Post by **Mr Josh Zombie** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:49 pm

j0n wrote: and to everyone that wants to watch it...YES lol

My planned course of action at this point is to get the kid to send me the link so i can "verify it's legit" and then contact the webmaster and see if he'll pull the video for me.

Fixed it for ya.

And chances are, the webmaster will laugh in your face and post it on the main page to get more hits.

If it is legit, don't worry about it. You wont be able to do much.

KrackstaR · Post by **KrackstaR** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:51 pm

dude i would say wait to talk to her to see if she even cares if she doesnt then dont even bother you and your girlfriend have more important stuff to deal with besides this douche bag and if he persist to start drama break his jaw (this is a very good method that i find relaxing at times)

j0n · Post by **j0n** » Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:55 pm

good point krack i guess i'll just see if it bothers her and go from there

heyitsstock · Post by **heyitsstock** » Tue Jul 31, 2007 12:52 am

it always sucks when u care

hansken_yo · Post by **hansken_yo** » Tue Jul 31, 2007 3:41 am

heck.... the way I see this... they can all see her body, but damn man... you actually get to touch it... they are just jealous, and I would be too.

lilolneon · Post by **lilolneon** » Tue Jul 31, 2007 9:04 am

eh... if u truly care about her, little crap like that shouldnt even phase you. and if your other friends are your real friends, they wont give a flip about it either.

as for the guy w/ the video, hes an ass

and as far as contacting the website admin person... she would have to be the one to do it since it is her. and if it was a problem the only way to have it removed is for her to have a lawsuit on it to have it removed. and only she can start the lawsuit.

as far as the ass is concerned again, if he does something stupid he can be sued for harassment, and w/e they call it when they make your name look bad.