Off Topic Totally Need help asap PLZ

Tam · Post by **Tam** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:30 am

jetas wrote:dnt let her kno u kno wat u kno bullshit.

I think my brain just broke a fuse.

2005.Neon.SXT · Post by **2005.Neon.SXT** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:19 am

Mat666 wrote:
jetas wrote:dnt let her kno u kno wat u kno bullshit.
I think my brain just broke a fuse.

lol it's sucha mission to try and read that. haha.

grambo · Post by **grambo** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 12:46 pm

LowNSlow wrote:It's not his fault...it's HERS...

She's making contact with him. If she wanted it to stop she would tell him to stop.

I'd abort mission and run away now.

Many, many, many other women out there dude. I'm with Low, kick her to the curb.

J-Villa · Post by **J-Villa** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 1:24 pm

it's always so hard to do. But it is always better in the long run.

My last relationship went to shit and went kept stringing it along and along and along. Totally messed with my head. Since we finally cut it off, i've been single for a year and a half. I've had my flings, dates, f.w.b. since then. But i'm am just waiting for the right girl. Hopefully she's out there! lol.

Keep your head up. Always smile, and be a good person. Things will fall into place when they are suppose to.

sullivan · Post by **sullivan** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 3:12 pm

well IMO id ditch her but make it bitter sweet...

slam the shit outta her then after tell her your breaking up with her... bound to leave a sour taste!

LilSparkPlug · Post by **LilSparkPlug** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 7:03 pm

Okay here's my .02....

Her Story: She told you that she was upset about this guy hitting on her.
Truth: She enjoyed it.

Her Story: He wouldn't give up and OMG look at that just gave me his number after I told him to leave me alone and that I had a boyfriend.
Truth: He has no idea you exist, and why after being told to GTFO would someone say...well here's my number?

Her Story: Oh well she has two phones, one's not on yet.
Truth: You already know it's his number. If he was truly bothering her his number wouldn't be in there in the first place.

My take: Relationships are built on trust, it's a huge foundation for any relationship be it family, friends or love. You cannot trust her, and even if you take her back you will never trust her again. Your controlling nature and fear that she will cheat again will simply ruin what you have. She isn't worth it...find someone else who will treat you like gold and be loyal.

v95 · Post by **v95** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:27 pm

hey bro if you pay the bill for both phones write down the number and check it against the bill. cause it should show you a calling record on it

rOniN · Post by **rOniN** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 9:56 pm

LilSparkPlug wrote:Okay here's my .02....

Her Story: She told you that she was upset about this guy hitting on her.
Truth: She enjoyed it.

Her Story: He wouldn't give up and OMG look at that just gave me his number after I told him to leave me alone and that I had a boyfriend.
Truth: He has no idea you exist, and why after being told to GTFO would someone say...well here's my number?

Her Story: Oh well she has two phones, one's not on yet.
Truth: You already know it's his number. If he was truly bothering her his number wouldn't be in there in the first place.

My take: Relationships are built on trust, it's a huge foundation for any relationship be it family, friends or love. You cannot trust her, and even if you take her back you will never trust her again. Your controlling nature and fear that she will cheat again will simply ruin what you have. She isn't worth it...find someone else who will treat you like gold and be loyal.

Women say it best

2005.Neon.SXT · Post by **2005.Neon.SXT** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:09 pm

rOniN wrote:
LilSparkPlug wrote:Okay here's my .02....

Her Story: She told you that she was upset about this guy hitting on her.
Truth: She enjoyed it.

Her Story: He wouldn't give up and OMG look at that just gave me his number after I told him to leave me alone and that I had a boyfriend.
Truth: He has no idea you exist, and why after being told to GTFO would someone say...well here's my number?

Her Story: Oh well she has two phones, one's not on yet.
Truth: You already know it's his number. If he was truly bothering her his number wouldn't be in there in the first place.

My take: Relationships are built on trust, it's a huge foundation for any relationship be it family, friends or love. You cannot trust her, and even if you take her back you will never trust her again. Your controlling nature and fear that she will cheat again will simply ruin what you have. She isn't worth it...find someone else who will treat you like gold and be loyal.

Women say it best

True, they do. Some women are one-of-a-kind.

LowNSlow · Post by **LowNSlow** » Mon Mar 30, 2009 10:11 pm

Pfft I said the same thing!

ABORT MISSION..

Run the fuck away.

JeffM · Post by **JeffM** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 1:10 am

LowNSlow wrote:Pfft I said the same thing!

ABORT MISSION..

Run the fuck away.

+1

Definately if you don't think you can trust her anymore, you aren't gonna be happy with her.

Haganracing · Post by **Haganracing** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 1:27 am

I say we hold a 2gn meet in front of this best buy.

Wait for the guy to come out and we all confront him. Ask him if he knows your girl and ask him if he is talking to her!

Then once he say the wrong answer.. Sh(&t hits the fan and he hits the ground, fast!

Then we can all go back to your place to throw her crap out on the lawn.

Mission accomplished!

Its late.. this plan sounds good at the time, but ill be sure to check it again after a good night's sleep, hahaha.

SOKADAO954 · Post by **SOKADAO954** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 1:44 am

i know im young but i have been in the same spot before. if she is talking to him is because she wants it, and soon she will tell you she needs a break and that she needs time to think things over.
this is the part that gets tricky.
GIRLS ARE BRAIN NINJAS
when she tell u she needs a break.
she will say " we have been fighting to much, you have been very controling etc.
they turn the story around witch now makes u fell like shit. thinking u pushed her away and u being crazy thinking she will cheat (and that stays in ur head dont matter wat u doing work,school etc that will eat u alive in ur head)

like LSP said u cant trust her. if u stay with her u will always have a step behind. its never going to be the same.
now everytime u got a chance u will check her phone email and things like that. and thats not heathy in a relationship.
i know how u fell but sometimes is best if u just let go.

2gNeon4life · Post by **2gNeon4life** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:52 am

Thanks for all of your advise, this is really helping me out a lot!!!
I have been laying cool and just relaxing and keeping my doors open to any girl that is interested! But mainly doing what i want to do and staying away from her for a bit! So thinks a lot

LilSparkPlug · Post by **LilSparkPlug** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:17 am

Haganracing wrote:I say we hold a 2gn meet in front of this best buy.

Wait for the guy to come out and we all confront him. Ask him if he knows your girl and ask him if he is talking to her!

Then once he say the wrong answer.. Sh(&t hits the fan and he hits the ground, fast!

Then we can all go back to your place to throw her crap out on the lawn.

Mission accomplished!

Its late.. this plan sounds good at the time, but ill be sure to check it again after a good night's sleep, hahaha.

But he isn't the at-fault party. I can almost guarantee you that he has NO idea she had a boyfriend at the time. While I am a female and know how most think I'm not typical. If I don't want you fucking bothering me, I make it plain as fucking day!

She said he gave her his number....well then how the fuck did he get hers? Magic? No....she used the number. You should keep your options open, to someone who will treat you the right way.

Paul56 · Post by **Paul56** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:25 pm

ARGH!!!

Dump her and dump her now... do not drag it out.

Post by **racer12306** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:45 pm

1st offense: shame on her

2nd offense: shame on you

there shouldn't have even been the opportunity for a second offense.

/relationship

suave23 · Post by **suave23** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:38 pm

Fairborn......what's her name? I'm the same age as you and used to know a couple girls from Fairborn.

Like everyone else has agreed on though, abort mission. She's obviously trying to hide the fact that she has some type of regular contact with the guy. Even if you work things out, do you REALLY think that you could ever just forget this whole situation ever happened? You may think that she tells you everything that happens at work, but I'm sure there's twice as much stuff going on that she doesn't tell you.

Go your seperate ways, but be the bigger person about it. Don't jump in to another relationship, just enjoy the free time with your friends and hang out with as many different girls while you can. She will be jealous when the Best Buy douche ends up running around on her, and it will bring you much pleasure.

Always remember...what goes around, comes around.

2gNeon4life · Post by **2gNeon4life** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:54 pm

Well I haven't talked to her in a few days now and i have to admit it is tough not having any communication with her! I just keep telling myself that i can get better and it will be better than what i have now. but i am trying to move on buy buying things for my car!! i guess this is better than eating ice cream!!

Im still trying to decide what is a good exhaust for my 02 neon. and suggestions?? But i do think that i will be done with her because i can't go on like this!!!
Thanks for all you guys support!!

LilSparkPlug · Post by **LilSparkPlug** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:09 pm

Funny how she hasn't given a flying fuck to attempt to contact you in any way. Not even to "explain" the situation or say she's "sorry". She's probably already with the other asshole.

contagious18 · Post by **contagious18** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 9:39 pm

LilSparkPlug wrote:Funny how she hasn't given a flying fuck to attempt to contact you in any way. Not even to "explain" the situation or say she's "sorry". She's probably already with the other asshole.

+1
if she hasnt called u wondering why u havnt called her, she obviously doesnt care about u

v95 · Post by **v95** » Tue Mar 31, 2009 10:41 pm

contagious18 wrote:
LilSparkPlug wrote:Funny how she hasn't given a flying fuck to attempt to contact you in any way. Not even to "explain" the situation or say she's "sorry". She's probably already with the other asshole.
+1
if she hasnt called u wondering why u havnt called her, she obviously doesnt care about u

so true cause the day after my girl left it took a month for her to call and by that time i had no cell phone cause i could not afford minutes due to the my compulsive money spending issue on the neon. but i did make it clear i was having the

college experience

SOKADAO954 · Post by **SOKADAO954** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 5:43 pm

contagious18 wrote:
LilSparkPlug wrote:Funny how she hasn't given a flying fuck to attempt to contact you in any way. Not even to "explain" the situation or say she's "sorry". She's probably already with the other asshole.
+1
if she hasnt called u wondering why u havnt called her, she obviously doesnt care about u

+3

like i said they are brain ninjas...

Jenni · Post by **Jenni** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 6:17 pm

Hey, we need some news and pictures while you're kicking her ass!

2gNeon4life · Post by **2gNeon4life** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 6:21 pm

lol Ill let everyone know what happens whenever i see her or talk to her!!

Post by **occasional demons** » Wed Apr 01, 2009 7:39 pm

theTeejmiester wrote:
sneakers O'toole wrote:throw all her shit out on the lawn.
true,i have been in your shoes man,if is starts like this it will get worse.then one day i came home and all of my stuff,hell even my tooth brush and toilet paper was gone!! and to top it off she called the ambulance to say that i was ODing on antidepressants,they showed up and i was pissed,and then they have to take you to the hospital if it is a attempted suicide.so i spent the night stewing,god i hate that woman....so watch yourself

That is one creative woman! She definately pwned you in that battle! Hope you won the war tho!

2gNeon4life · Post by **2gNeon4life** » Fri Apr 03, 2009 11:33 pm

OK so i ran into my EX today in chipotle and i asked her why she hasn't called me to see if i was ok. She said that when i left and didnt call her she thought that we were done. So i asked her if we were truely done, then she said she wasn't sure.
So long story short she said that she missed me and that she is sorry for what happen and she wanted some time to think about the whole thing and then i cut her off and said that she can have the rest of her life to think about the shit she put me through and that we would never be together again. then we looked at each other and then i just walked away. I have to admit i feel pretty good about what i did and i didn't give up to what she wanted. so now i am a free man. thanks for everyones advice!!

SOKADAO954 · Post by **SOKADAO954** » Sat Apr 04, 2009 6:18 pm

2gNeon4life wrote:OK so i ran into my EX today in chipotle and i asked her why she hasn't called me to see if i was ok. She said that when i left and didnt call her she thought that we were done. So i asked her if we were truely done, then she said she wasn't sure.
So long story short she said that she missed me and that she is sorry for what happen and she wanted some time to think about the whole thing and then i cut her off and said that she can have the rest of her life to think about the shit she put me through and that we would never be together again. then we looked at each other and then i just walked away. I have to admit i feel pretty good about what i did and i didn't give up to what she wanted. so now i am a free man. thanks for everyones advice!!

wow ur the shit. i bet she fells like shit right now man!
she got what she asked for she wont realized what she had til its gone and guess what its gone now. tell her to run to her co-worker who probably just wants to hit it and dip out.

2gNeon4life · Post by **2gNeon4life** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 7:13 pm

ok so i have been shopping for a exhaust for my neon. i have it down to a magnaflow exhaust. i like the way it sound. Does any one have any other ideas on a exhaust?

LilSparkPlug · Post by **LilSparkPlug** » Sun Apr 05, 2009 8:04 pm

LOL THERE YOU GO! Get rid of the bitch buy parts for the car!

Glad you stood up for yourself