So I got into an accident last Thursday because some asshole ran a red light and I hit him in the side, I was coming into the intersection, checked the light twice and after the second time I looked down and he was right there. It was green both times. But somehow his light was green too.

I got the call yesterday that insurance is totaling the car. They're giving me $5k for Shelia (my '03 SXT) Buyback is $500 so I'm considering it and repairs would have only been $3800 w/parts. If I source my own parts it's more like $2k to straighten out the front end again.
My ideal plan would be to buy the car back, give that to my parents to replace their rusted out '01 Windstar and buy a WRX. No dealers in my area have any that are up for grabs, does anybody know of a decent Subie forum or anybody in the central NY areawhere I may be able to find one?
EDIT: Also she won't start anymore, the only thing that is broken on the motor or trans is one sensor on the front of the trans to the far driver side. Is this the neutral safety switch on the 4spd?