just to vent...moms gone...

doyle09 · Post by **doyle09** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 3:36 pm

Just lost my dad about a week ago. it really sucks. ALOT. stay close to your family, can't stress that enough. they have helped me through all this more than i would have ever though. my thoughts go out to you bud! stay strong

LowNSlow · Post by **LowNSlow** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 3:38 pm

doyle09 wrote:Just lost my dad about a week ago. it really sucks. ALOT. stay close to your family, can't stress that enough. they have helped me through all this more than i would have ever though. my thoughts go out to you bud! stay strong

Damn man... you too.

We will be thinking about you both and your families

Very tough time to deal with a loss that great.

theColonel · Post by **theColonel** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 4:59 pm

g_force58 wrote:I am so very sorry to hear about your Mom. I know it's hard and many things can be said, but I want to say God Bless you all and know she is hurting and struggling no more. She is truely in GOD's Hands.

I'd never be able to express it this well. Even though your mother is relieved of her suffering, and her soul is in a better place, she lives on thru your memories.
My mother died 25 years ago, at age 66, but my brothers and I feel she'll always be with us through our memories of her.

Post by **racer12306** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 8:35 pm

Teej,

My best to you and your family. Just remember that she is no longer in pain.

theTeejmiester · Post by **theTeejmiester** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 8:45 pm

She is not suffering anymore, that's what I keep telling myself. But I am having a hard time, me and my wife sat with her for 6 hours and watched her slowly suffocate. it was horrible. she made it just long enough for my brother to make it in from out of town, he walked in, told her he loved her and she just went. I reached over checked her pulse, and she was gone. Its going to be a long hard road but she wanted us to move on and remember her, remember her strength and grace, and how good of a person she was. my little sister is having a hard time understanding what happened, and my kids are also. but we will make it, tomorrow starts the planning for her memorial, that is going to be hard. and right now I am writing her obituary for our local paper, and I just cannot stop crying

we will truly miss your kindness and understanding mom.

and thank you to everyone on here for your kind words, it means a lot to have people to talk to outside of the immediate family. once again thank you to all and god bless

LowNSlow · Post by **LowNSlow** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 9:05 pm

Teej, you're strong as hell man.

I couldn't see myself stepping up to write the obituary and taking on your little sister on top of you're own family.

I have a lot of respect for you man.

FAC3L3SS · Post by **FAC3L3SS** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 11:12 pm

You're a tough dude Teej. Handling all of this emotion is difficult, but you're doing it in stride and taking the others under your wing. Props for being the person you are and having the personality you do. Stay strong.

Post by **occasional demons** » Mon Sep 13, 2010 11:12 pm

LowNSlow wrote:Teej, you're strong as hell man.

I couldn't see myself stepping up to write the obituary and taking on your little sister on top of you're own family.

I have a lot of respect for you man.

X2

Our condolences, thoughts, and prayers go out to both you and doyle09.

biggrobb1995 · Post by **biggrobb1995** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 4:42 am

Teej, I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I'm gonna be keepin you and your family in my prayers. [/list]

contagious18 · Post by **contagious18** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 10:40 am

Teej. My prayers are with you. I know it's hard but your mom is now resting peacefully.

OB · Post by OB » Tue Sep 14, 2010 2:34 pm

LowNSlow wrote:Teej, you're strong as hell man.

I couldn't see myself stepping up to write the obituary and taking on your little sister on top of you're own family.

I have a lot of respect for you man.

^Exactly how I feel. That blows me away.

Fuzzyneon · Post by **Fuzzyneon** » Tue Sep 14, 2010 2:51 pm

OB wrote:
LowNSlow wrote:Teej, you're strong as hell man.

I couldn't see myself stepping up to write the obituary and taking on your little sister on top of you're own family.

I have a lot of respect for you man.
^Exactly how I feel. That blows me away.

Teej You have just defined being strong for your family anything you need let us know. Your mom is in a better place and im sure DAMN proud of you

theTeejmiester · Post by **theTeejmiester** » Wed Sep 15, 2010 11:47 pm

thank you guys, I am only as strong as I need to be, and family is family, I could never see my sister going anywhere else. yesterday we had the viewing of my mother and my sister took it hard, but it had to be done, to provide closure, and tomorrow we have the viewing of a very good friend of mine who died the day before my mom, and Friday is his funeral, it is going to be hard doing this twice in one week. but it has to be done. its been a horrible week.

FAC3L3SS · Post by **FAC3L3SS** » Wed Sep 15, 2010 11:51 pm

I'm sorry for you, Teej. As already said, you're strong as hell. Keep your head up and keep guiding your family. Most importantly, stick together. This is the thick, so only the thin is left to come

( I hope that comes out positive. I shouldn't have thick / thin flipped )

darthroush · Post by **darthroush** » Thu Sep 16, 2010 12:23 am

She is at peace now. I know the feeling of losing someone close; it is a very emotional ride. Your strength in the situation will help everyone pull through. Kudos to you for everything you have done, are doing and for the things still to come. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, and I wish nothing but the best and a speedy recovery for everyone from this hard time.

Take care bud!

2GN.ORG

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